Why Your Life Needs Novelty, No Matter Your Age (2)
So after about 30 seconds, I decide to mimic.
And so I lay in this fresh bed of snow in Montana, I move my arms and my legs.
And then it dawns on me.
I'm making a snow angel for the first time. And of course, I've seen other people do it and I've seen it on television before.
But it was the first time I did it.
You see, I've coined the term powerful first experiences or PFEs as doing something you never thought you would do for the first time, in a place that you never thought you would be in for the first time.
The main reason why I was in Montana in the first place was to give a talk about powerful first experiences,
so it was only right that I would then have powerful first experiences in Montana.
Powerful first experiences are life-altering moments and experiences that change the way that we see ourselves and changes the way we see the world.
And it can be as expansive as skydiving out of a plane in France or as small as visiting a lake to meditate for the first time.
What matters is your imagination, your courage and your curiosity.
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大约 30 秒后,我打算模仿她。
我躺在了蒙大拿刚下的雪地上,动起了我的手臂和腿,
我恍然大悟,
这是我第一次做雪天使。
当然,我看过别人这么做,之前也在电视上看到过。
但这是我第一次这么做。
我自创了"震撼的第一次"或者 PFE 这个词,意思是做那些你从未想过要做的事,在你从未想过会做这件事的地方。
我到蒙大拿的主要原因本来就是要做一场关于"震撼的第一次"的演讲,
所以我在蒙大拿有了一场"震撼的第一次"也是理所因当。
震撼的第一次是改变人生的瞬间和经历,改变了我们看待自己的方式,改变了我们看待世界的方式。
可以像在法国极限跳伞这么大型的经历,也可以像第一次前往一个湖泊冥想这么微不足道。
重要的是你的想象力、勇气和好奇心。
In the book "Power of Moments" by Chip and Dan Heath, the authors reference what psychologists call the reminiscence bump,
a phenomenon where older individuals are asked to think about their experiences, where they tend to disproportionately talk about the experiences that happened roughly between the ages of 15 to 30.
Some researchers say this is a time in our lives when we experience the most novelty.
And there's a few theories why.
One, when you enter and pass through your 30s, life can seem like it speeds up because we develop the habits of doing the same things over and over.
Another reason is that there are just some experiences in our lives that are set to happen within that time frame.
So think about it. By 15, you might be in high school.
By 18, you may be in college.
After college, you get a job, you may buy the big home, you may get married, you may have a kid.
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在希思兄弟(Chip and Dan Heath)的书《时刻的力量》(Power of Moments)中,作者引用了心理学家所称的"记忆隆起",
即在要求老年人回忆以往经历时,他们会滔滔不绝地谈论他们 15 至 30 岁左右的经历。
有些研究者称,这段时间是我们人生中经历最多新奇事物的时候。
有许多理论可以解释其中原因。
一个原因是,当你走进 30 岁,度过了三十多岁的人生,就会感觉人生加速了,因为我们形成了一遍又一遍地做同一件事的习惯。
另一个原因是人生中就是有一些事只会在那段时间里发生。
想想看。到了 15 岁,你在读高中。
到了 18 岁,你在读大学。
读完了大学,你找了份工作,买座大房子,结婚,生个娃。